Out and about

When you and your baby head out on your first out-of-house ventures, it’s likely that you will come across a few overly eager strangers. You might be flattered when the nice lady behind the cash register sweetly compliments you on your precious little one, but shocked when she then asks if she can hold her. Although the cashier is surely a lovely lady, it’s perfectly reasonable to kindly tell her no : “Oh, I’m sorry but I have to be a little selfish – I don’t like giving up single moment of my little princess!”

Keep in mind, too, that it’s not just adults that will be excited by your baby, but little kiddos as well. While a child’s fascination is generally sweet and curious, sometimes their poking, prodding and germ-filled fingers can leave you wishing that his parents were less amused by him and more concerned for your baby. Feel free to speak up if you’re uncomfortable with Junior touching/petting/sneezing on your baby. Just remember to be gentle and friendly in your corrections – after all, your baby will be Junior’s age in just a few years and likely just as curious: “Sweetheart, the baby is very fragile. We can look at her, but let’s not touch her, okay? When she is big and strong like you are, she’ll be able to play more”.

If ever you find yourself in a sticky social situation, don’t hesitate speak up. Just be sure to do so in a thoughtful and genial way, keeping in mind the unintentional social offender’s innocent excitement. And as you skillfully manage the circumstance, remember to take the time enjoy the delight your baby brings to others.